Whether you’re concerned about your own mental well-being or that of someone else, knowing how to help, what to say and who to contact can be the difference between life and death. This resource section will continually be updated to provide you with the most up to date and relevant information and support, based on your specific needs:
I am having suicidal thoughts or someone I know is
If you are considering taking your own life, right now, you probably feel that there is no other option – it could be that you’ve been feeling this way for some time and you possibly have a plan already in place?
If you’re struggling and you’re not sure if you want to live or die, can you, just for now, hold off making this decision and click the following link to StayingSafe.net . Once you’re there, keep reading and watching the videos for some ideas about how to get through. There may be things that you – and other people – can do to make things better.
You may have found yourself wishing that you were dead, or perhaps thinking that the people who you care about would be better off without you but with support you can choose to live.
Even situations that seem almost impossible to face can feel different if you remind yourself that feelings don’t last forever and you have an idea of what you can do to get through this painful time.
How to create a Safety Plan –
Information about how to make a Safety Plan can be found here on the StayingSafe.net website for anyone struggling with suicidal thoughts or supporting someone else. It’s designed to offer hope, compassion and practical ideas on how to find your own way forward.
Please keep reading and keep watching the films where you’ll find everything you need to know about making a Safety Plan and how it will help you. You will find details of what you can do for yourself and who you can contact for support when you need it.
‘How do I support someone who is considering suicide?’
You may be concerned about someone you know and just as worried about saying or doing the wrong thing. Either way, it is vital that you ask the question; “Are you considering taking your own life?”. Next, you need to ensure they are safe until appropriate professional help is available.
In the first instance, we would recommend you suggest the person follows the StayingSafe.net guidelines shown above, whilst you remain with them or contact any of the resources shown below, with Options 1-3 being the most important in an emergency.
1. Visit your local hospital’s A&E department or ask for an Emergency Doctor’s appointment without delay. Click here for NHS services (UK)
2. Call The Samaritans – call for free to 116 123 (UK and Ireland). Due to an increase in the number of calls being received to Samaritans during the pandemic, occasionally their line might be busy. If this is the case don’t give up, either try again later or use one of the other support services shown on this page. Also, Samaritans have created this Self-Help app which includes how to create your own safety plan – Visit Samaraitans main website here
3. Other international suicide helplines can be found at here.
4. Hub of Hope – if you are struggling with your mental health, Hub of Hope provides help locally to you. Just add your postcode and you’ll have immediate access to a GP, psychotherapist etc – Visit site
5. Doc Ready – if you need to speak to a doctor about your mental health, knowing what to say, when you’re under stress, can be difficult and you may omit important information. Doc Ready provides a template for you to write out what you need to ask the Doctor before you speak with them – Visit site
6. Shout – : is a free text service 85258, where you are immediately put through to trained individual who can help if you are in crisis – Visit site
7. The Listening Place – get in touch for face-to-face support if you feel life is no longer worth living. You can Visit site
Champion Health UK Ltd – World Suicide Prevention Day 2020, suicide prevention guide
This guide will enable you to better understand why someone might consider suicide and help you protect yourself or others, if you or someone you know is considering taking their own lives. Please click the link to download a copy of this important guide Champion Health Suicide Prevention Guide
I am anxious and often feel depressed
We would always recommend seeing your GP as soon as possible. Your doctor may determine that some form of anti-depressant medication is required to help reduce any extreme thoughts or behaviours you are experiencing. Medication often works best, when supported by talking therapy.
So, Step 1: Book an appointment with your doctor as soon as possible.
Next contact one of the many support organisations, who are equipped and ready to help you, these include:
1. CALM – Campaign Against Living Miserably – (England) run a free, confidential and anonymous helpline offering help, advice and information to anyone who is struggling or in crisis Visit website
2. MIND Visit website provides advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem, including depression and anxiety.
3. Side by Side – provided by the charity MIND, Side by side is a supportive online community where you can feel at home talking about your mental health and connect with others who understand what you are going through. Visit website
4. BAATN – this organisation is promoted as the home of the largest community of Counsellors and Psychotherapist of Black, African, Asian and Caribbean heritage in the UK. Visit website
The Wellbeing Support Grid
When you’re feeling highly anxious or possibly considering ending your life, knowing where or who to turn to, if/when you need help, could be the difference between a future life filled with infinite possibilities or the worst of possible outcomes, which is never knowing what could have been.
We would highly recommend that everyone downloads this Wellbeing Support Grid
Print a copy of the grid and in the left column, write all the possible sources of support in your network – this could include family, friends, colleagues or professional and support groups on or off-line, list them all.
Then in the column headed Who Supports? write the name of who that specific person is who would be there for you.
In the next column, headed What Supports? write down what support that person or organisation could provide.
In the third column, headed ‘How Supports?’ write down how they deliver that support i.e. by telephone, online, face-to-face, do they come to you or do you go to them?
The best time to complete this grid is when you don’t need to, so why not download your copy now Wellbeing Support Grid
The wellbeing grid has been created by Legacy partner Paul Vittles.
I have lost someone to suicide
The ripple effect of someone completing suicide can be immense. The following organisations are there to support anyone who is bereaved as a result of suicide, whatever your relationship to the person who took their own life.
- Calm- Campaign Against Living Miserably – (England) Visit website
- Mind – Provides information on bereavement, where to go for support, and suggestions for helping yourself and others through grief Visit website
- The Compassionate Friends (not suicide specific) – supporting bereaved parent and their families Visit global website / Visit UK website